Back to school: a fresh start for success

By TIFFANIE DITLEVSON
Guest Columnist

Back-to-school time is my favorite time of year.

My daughter is 22 years old now, and some of my fondest memories are of the planning and shopping we did to prepare for a new year of learning. New teachers, new friends, new outfits, new backpack, new crayons, and a favorite lunchbox.

When Micayla started kindergarten at Bowie Montessori Children’s House (we lived outside of Washington, D.C.) her first teacher, Ms. Lenora, was amazing. And as the book states, so many of her lifelong lessons she learned in Kindergarten: be nice, keep your hands to yourself, take a nap, never say “no” to a snack, and don’t run with scissors.

As the 2024-2025 school year gets into full swing, I wanted to share some insight I picked up from other moms that I quickly implemented. I think “momming” is much harder than it was five to 20 years ago. Balancing work, home, post-pandemic catchup, homework, sports, activities, faith, and simply enjoying life is so much more complicated. I truly respect everything our young families do to create wonderful childhood experiences for their children.

Here’s my list, and #1 and #5 are purely selfish, and apply to all of us!

1. Traffic safety is PARAMOUNT – SLOW DOWN!

Our children and students are the most valuable assets in our community. Hands down, they cannot be replaced and should be protected. All of us who share the roads with school buses, minivans, nannies, student drivers, and teachers need to slow down and be mindful of their need to be at school on time. Try to avoid the busiest times and areas when you can.

2. Establish a routine early

One of the most effective ways to ease back into the school year is by establishing a routine early on. Create a morning routine that includes time for a healthy breakfast, which can improve concentration and energy levels throughout the day. Additionally, set aside specific times for homework and recreational activities to provide structure and balance. When I started third grade, my mom made me do my homework immediately after school; she wanted me to be able to play without the worry of homework. It was simple and stuck with me through school, university, and my graduate work. I graduated high school in 1991, UNC in 1996, and Indiana Wesleyan in 2013, and always did homework first.

3. Get organized

Organization is crucial for academic success. Start by gathering all necessary school supplies and organizing them in a designated study space. Use planners or digital calendars to keep track of assignments, tests, and extracurricular activities. Encourage students to regularly declutter their backpacks and study areas to maintain a productive environment. An organized approach reduces stress and helps students stay on top of their responsibilities.

In 1983, my parents took us to Sears to purchase desks for both my sister and me. My mom was adamant about having dedicated space to do homework and organize materials. Truth be told, I was not excited about the desk, but it was a needed promotion from the kitchen table. I grew up with the Sears catalog and only dreamed of the toy section (and I hated the Pretty Plus section – inbox me if you know what that was).

4. Foster a positive mindset

Returning to school can bring about a mix of emotions. It’s important to foster a positive mindset and approach the new school year with enthusiasm. Set realistic goals and celebrate small achievements along the way. Encourage open communication about any anxieties or concerns, and remind students that it’s normal to feel nervous. Building a support network of friends, family, and teachers can provide a sense of security and confidence. After my divorce, I always had a network of other moms who kept me up to date on meetings, events, field trips, and could provide Micayla an emergency ride home.

5. Traffic safety is PARAMOUNT – SLOW DOWN!

Our children and students are the most valuable assets in our community. Hands down, they cannot be replaced and should be protected. All of us who share the roads with school buses, minivans, nannies, student drivers, and teachers need to slow down and be mindful of their need to be at school on time. Try to avoid the busiest times and areas when you can.

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I wish all the students, teachers and administrators a fabulous 2024-2025 school year. And please let me know your tips for a successful and safe school year!

Email Tiffanie Ditlevson at tiffanie.ditlevson@talktotucker.com.