By AMY SHANKLAND
Sandwiched
I had the amazing foresight to take last Monday off, which happened to be a mostly sunny, almost 60-degree day. I planned to visit my mother and Betty Gerrard, a Noblesville legend, that morning.
My husband John and I also were taking care of two dogs for some friends of ours, Laci and Tiny. Laci is sweet but an old girl who doesn’t like to do too much anymore. Tiny, on the other hand, is younger and the biggest cuddle dog you’ll ever meet. She loves everyone and wouldn’t hurt a fly.
Of course, I instantly thought of taking her along on my visits. Matt and Cindy, her owners, heartily agreed. So off we went to see two special ladies, Tiny riding in the car just as calm as can be.
Long time readers may be wondering why I didn’t bring Rex, Mom’s dog, instead. While I love Rex, taking him places is stressful, as he doesn’t like strangers and sometimes bites. I figured Tiny could bring some smiles to not only Mom and Betty, but to everyone at their assisted living facilities. And I was right.
People were almost melting as soon as I walked in the door to Mom’s place. Nurses, CNAs, and other staff members rushed over to pet her.
Mom’s eyes lit up when I showed Tiny to her. I gently set her on Mom’s lap where she proceeded to relax while Mom stroked her soft fur. Unlike Rex, Tiny sat perfectly still, which was wonderful for Mom. Rex sometimes hurts her legs when he gets fidgety.
We had a delightful visit then set off to see the next special lady in my life. Tiny was a hit at Sanders Glen as well! We caught Betty as she was having lunch, so she couldn’t have Tiny on her lap for very long, but Betty loved seeing her explore her apartment.
After we left Betty’s, I opened up the sunroof on my Mini Cooper as we drove home. Tiny and I both took a deep breath and enjoyed the beauty of the sunshine and blue skies. She closed her eyes in contentment.
I’m a big believer in animal therapy. I’ve demonstrated this with my numerous years of working or volunteering at Agape Therapeutic Riding Resources in Cicero. Dogs can relieve loneliness, reduce the stress of those with dementia or Alzheimer’s, offer mental stimulation, and boost the mood of elderly people.
If you are taking care of an elderly family member, try to connect them with a sweet, furry friend whenever you can if they don’t have a pet. It not only makes their day but gives you something to truly smile about.
We’ll have Tiny and Laci as houseguests in April as well. You can bet I’ll be taking Tiny back to see these special gals!