Articles by Amy Shankland

Starting my research

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect With my non-identifying info regarding my adoption in hand, I had some solid things to go on for a more advanced search for my biological…

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The Locator Club

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect Mary didn’t bug me often after that conversation about what I should do regarding the search for my biological parents because she knew about my…


Going further in my journey?

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect After finding out the non-identifying info about my biological parents, life went on. By the time the fall of 2009 rolled around, I had been…




Feeling the pull

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect Since it took so long to get pregnant the first time, I was eager to try again that following summer when Jonathon was only seven…


Wondering about my heritage

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect Turns out, John and I did not need to consider adoption after all. God had other plans. A month after attending the pre-adoption class, I…



Surviving the awkward years

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect The topic of my adoption didn’t come up very often between my parents and me after that revealing Sunday. I do remember being a preteen…


A difficult conversation

By AMY SHANKLAND Perfectly Imperfect Thank you for the wonderful comments from last week. My adoption and reunion story will be slowly revealed every Friday, just like a television program…