Articles by Amy Shankland

Long friendships

When you’re an empty nester, you’re definitely not young anymore! Most of us are in more of the “middle-aged” category. As I’ve shared before, I don’t mind being in this…

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You’re going to eat THAT?

One of the fun things about being an “almost” empty nester is visiting our boys near their college campuses. Jonathon attends IUPUI and Jacob attends Ball State. Last Sunday, my…


Tears & shamrock shakes

It’s been over 10 months since my mom died. Longtime readers may recall when my column was called Sandwiched, as I spent many years in the sandwich generation taking care…


Examining my empty nest

After wrapping up my adoption and reunion story last week, it’s time to move on to a new topic for this column. My editor and I agreed that focusing on…


A happy ending to my journey

As my adoption and reunion story ends, I’ve continued to change some names, places, and dates. This is my final column discussing my adoption and reunion journey. I can’t thank…


Learning my heritage

As my adoption and reunion story continues, I’ve changed some names, places, and dates. Another compelling reason for states to open their adoption records is so adoptees can work to…




A life well lived & well loved

Dear Readers, I’m afraid I must pause my adoption and reunion story today. Noblesville lost one of its greatest residents a week ago. Betty Gerrard, known to many as Betsy…


Don’t rush your reunion

As my adoption and reunion story continues, I’ve changed some names, places, and dates. Around Thanksgiving in 2015, my birth mother Linda and I once again were in the middle…