“What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments but what is woven into the lives of others.” – Pericles
Again this month a diversion from my usual health-related column – a healthy attitude about those who deserve our respect and remembrance is most sorely needed in these challenging times.
As Father’s Day is just around the corner, many of us are either spending time with our father or father-figure or perhaps reminiscing about time we did spend with that person. For you he may be a grandfather, uncle, or close family friend as well. One thing they all have in common – they are guys!
However, this column will not be about my own dad, specifically. Trust me, I could write volumes about him; he was my “Ward Cleaver” type of dad and a most loving, generous, funny, hardworking man who passed away long ago at the age of 42, and I miss him very much. Additionally, my father-in-law was a man who I feel blessed and honored to have known. SO – I started thinking recently, while attending a memorial service, about other Noblesville men who have left in recent years and the mark they made and legacy they left behind. Their families will have their own special memories, but I thought I would touch on some of the ways these men left a special memory or legacy for many. You may or may not be surprised by my comments.
Sharon’s father, who passed away at age 42. (Photo provided by Sharon McMahon)
Irving Heath (or “Irv” as we all knew him) was a towering figure of a man who came to Noblesville to live with his beloved wife Rachel and to raise their three children. Although Irv was an East Coast fellow, he jumped into the Midwest with both feet! Irv started his own business and became very active in community events, making a huge difference in the lives of children through his work with the Boy Scouts and the Noblesville Boys and Girls Club. If I name all the organizations this column would be far too long! Irv’s legacy as a soldier who was awarded a purple heart, bronze star and other decorations again could fill many pages.
Don Roberts was known for his gentle nature and love of life. Don was an aviation teacher at Noblesville High School for several years and never knew a stranger. He was our beloved “Santa on the Square” for many years and had a big heart for anyone in need. Don operated his own construction business, and it is said that many times he helped out friends and strangers alike who needed a helping hand. Don was a Navy veteran and most of us saw him driving his pickup truck through Noblesville with his American flag attached to the truck bed. Don and his best friend Larry owned and operated Noblesville Airport. Don indeed will be missed.
Dick Dellinger was a Noblesville transplant who made his mark at Noblesville High School teaching government from 1959 to 1997. His dry wit and the ability to stimulate and engage his students are legendary. “Mr. D” was also a City Council member and served in the Indiana House from 1972 to 1992. Those of us who were fortunate to be one of his students will continue to remember him fondly.
The last mention may surprise some, and I can say I did not personally know this gentleman as I did the other two. His name was Billy Taylor. I grew up in Noblesville hearing Billy’s name and catching a sighting once in a while. Unfortunately, Billy’s name usually came up in order to poke fun at him or disparage him. You see, Billy was developmentally disabled, though in years past other words were sometimes used. As far as I know, he was usually smiling and ready to run an errand or follow any directions given to him. As the Chamber president, I was aware that business owners around town would rely on him to take their deposits to the bank because Billy was not deceptive but trusting and faithful. I believe that many watched out for him as well. There were no special classes, social services, or outreach to benefit Billy, but he was a survivor through many trials who I am sure endured much through his youth and young adulthood. Why did I include Billy here, among these inspired and inspiring gentlemen? It just felt right.
These unique men all left their mark here in Noblesville. Irv lived to a great old age of 98, Don left too soon at 79, Mr. D at 87, with Billy passing at 71. Four different men with very different backgrounds and experiences, but all part of Noblesville’s legacy and whom I hope will be remembered for a long time. Special people who remain in our hearts and minds continue their legacies and will never be forgotten.
In the meantime, Happy Father’s Day and thank you for being there to care for, inspire, and lead the next generation of young men and women.
Back to nutrition and fitness next month! Lots of opportunities for veggies on the grill – yum!
Sharon McMahon, CNWC
The opinions expressed in this article are not intended to replace advice of your personal physician or licensed health professional. Please consult your physician for any issues you may have related to nutrition or fitness activity.
Lovely tribute to Fathers in Noblesville.