May is National Foster Care Month: why foster parents matter

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Editor’s note: The following is a public service announcement from the National Youth Advocate Program, a local nonprofit. Its purpose is not only to thank all good foster parents during National Foster Care Month, but to express the enduring need for more good foster parents and families.

You may have heard the heart-tugging interviews of celebrities who spent part of their childhood in foster care. You’ve undoubtedly seen the feel-good story of a foster parent who “made all the difference” for a child who grew up to be an icon, a change-maker. Maybe you’ve skimmed an article online about the national foster care crisis. Or maybe you recognized familiar foster care language in a politician’s campaign, who vows to “keep our kids out of group houses” and find them homes.

Foster care is not for the stories, interviews, and campaigns. It’s not only happening in the lives of stars and influencers. We have so many youth experiencing foster care, especially teenagers, who need safe, temporary homes while they await reunification with their families.

However, there needs to be more foster homes for all of them.

Older youth are NOT the ones getting placed in our available foster homes. Teens often end up placed in group homes and shelters because there are not enough foster homes available. These teens in foster care are friends of our children. They are our nieces, nephews, and youth of family friends. They are our neighbors.

Youth experiencing the foster care system need foster parents who will stand by them and walk through uncertainty to help them heal. They need positive adult role models.

THIS is why our foster parents matter. THIS is why adults – young, old, married, single, gay, straight – who commit themselves to teens by opening their homes and hearts are the ones instilling hope. THIS is why we celebrate foster parents.

May is National Foster Care Month. National Youth Advocate Program (NYAP) appreciates foster parents everywhere. Just like our own children, teens experiencing foster care thrive when they’re placed in loving, safe, empowering homes with foster parents who genuinely want them to succeed.

To learn more about becoming a NYAP foster parent, please visit nyap.org/fostercare or call us at 877-NYAP-CAN.