From the Heart
“Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.” – Dalai Lama
Have you ever had certain people in your life that just seem to go out of their way to irritate you?
Do you find that they provoke you to impatience and put you in a bad mood?
Do they get under your skin like a splinter and just annoy the goodness right out of your day?
Well, I have a few of them. And no, they do not read my column.
I can’t imagine the energy that some people put into their day to complicate the lives of others.
It’s true what they say, misery loves company.
Here are my thoughts …
They can invite you into their misery but you don’t have to accept the invitation.
You can smile and walk away from their cutting remarks and bitter actions and be the better person.
If you sling dirt with a pig you will both get dirty but only one of you will enjoy it.
If you stir manure, the stink will follow you.
Some of the happiest people I know have survived the attack of the harshest criticism. They have learned that the words may hurt but they don’t have to carry and show the scars caused by them.
It’s sad that some people carry so much bitterness that they feel the need to heap it upon others.
Just because you have the ability or power to make others feel “less than” does not mean that you should do it.
Character is shown in the simple words of appreciation. Lack of character is shown in the simple words of demeaning and criticism.
A gentleman treats a lady with respect and kindness. A lady treats a man with respect and kindness. It’s a two way street. Stay in your own lane.
Actions speak volumes. Words show true colors.
Sometimes the greatest peace is found by just walking away from someone who creates havoc and discord in your day. Being nice to them is the greatest weapon.
Inner peace does not mean your circumstances are easy. It means you choose to not live under your circumstances but above them.
If someone constantly rains on your parade, carry an umbrella of kindness. And sometimes … well, refrain from clobbering them with your umbrella.
At the end of the day just be thankful that you do not live in their circumstances. It can’t be a happy place.
Inner peace and contentment is found not in the best of circumstances but in not allowing the circumstances of others to put thorns in your nest.
Enjoy your day my friends and carry a pretty umbrella. You may need it!