By MARK HALL
The Feeding Team Feature
Pantry lesson: We usually don’t know the full story. One question we often get is, “Doesn’t it upset you when someone who doesn’t need it takes from one of the pantries?”
Nope, not really. If a neighbor’s family is hungry, the pantries are a safe, confidential place to get food. But think deeper and you realize that we never know the full story. Today’s example of a neighbor in need was relayed from a volunteer. It requires that we examine how we view neighbors in need.
Mrs. Smith goes to pick up food every week for herself and her three children. She arrives at the same time to the same location driving the same late-model Mercedes Benz. On the surface the Smith family appears to be doing well, yet something seems off. Why are they getting free food from the pantry? Are these folks just gaming the system?
Over time, the rest of the family’s story came into focus. You see, Mr. Smith tragically passed away while deployed on active duty. His dream car (yes, the Mercedes) was purchased shortly before he left on deployment. Mrs. Smith, now a single mother of three, could not bear to part with her deceased husband’s dream car. It was completely paid for. Now she provides for her family in part from the pantries. Our neighbors’ stories can be convicting.
While loading pantries, we occasionally see neighbors shopping for groceries. As a practice we don’t engage, but if a neighbor needs someone to listen, we are happy to. On the road, we see neighbors walk up, drive up in tricked-out jeeps, late-model cars and in motorized wheelchairs. Their story is none of our business. We will never know it unless they choose to engage.
With over 27,000 food-challenged neighbors in Hamilton County, so many families are one blown engine, one layoff or one unexpected medical bill away from food insecurity.
In future columns, we will share more stories from neighbors about how your generosity served them in times of need. Be assured that the face of hunger in Hamilton County is not what you may think.
In practical terms, this simple way to help neighbors is having real impact on lives, families, and our communities. Thank you. A few meals can change the course of a person’s life. A can of green beans means so much more when you have nothing to feed your kids. Want to get involved? Go to feedingteam.org.
Mark & Lisa Hall are the Founders of Feeding Team. They may be reached at lisa@feedingteam.org and mark@feedingteam.org or (317) 832-1104.