Sandwiched
I know many of my columns talk about the challenges of being in the sandwich generation. But my siblings and I experience some fun moments with my mom as well.
Some of that fun involves her sayings – or “Mom-isms” as I call them. Mom’s used a few interesting phrases for as long as I can remember, and they crack me up. I’ll share some of my favorites.
“Let’s red up the dishes.”
I remember the first time I said this in front of my husband John. His brows furrowed in confusion.
“What did you just say?” I repeated the phrase not realizing it wasn’t a common one. Mom said it to me often as a child before we cleared the table after meals and got ready to wash dishes. “Redding up the dishes” means to gather them up. I did some research online and apparently the phrase is used from Kansas all the way to rural Ohio and Pennsylvania.
“You look like Grandma Grunt with her tooth out in front.” Or, “If you keep pouting like that a bird’s gonna perch on your lip.”
Mom would say this to us whenever we were in a bad mood or, of course, angry and pouting. Once again I went online to see if anyone used either of these phrases. Grandma Grunt must’ve been something Mom or one of her family members made up, because I can’t find any mention of this grouchy woman.
The saying about a bird perching on your lip, however, turned up some interesting stories from the USC Digital Folklore Archives. Many people shared that their grandparents said it to them when they were little to make them behave. I haven’t used either of these phrases with my own family. I have used – and absolutely love – the final Mom-ism.
“He/she/it’s a pain where pills don’t reach.”
This is probably my favorite one of all. I have no idea where Mom got it and the Internet revealed nothing.
Just saying it when you encounter a difficult person or situation is a great way to release some steam without resorting to curse words. You have to admit, you can’t miss the meaning of that phrase whatsoever!
I’m sure other families have unique phrases. For me, my mother’s sayings will always bring up laughter, some raised eyebrows, and many fond memories.
Amy,
I just wanted to tell you how much I have enjoyed your contributions to the Reporter. My wife and I are each responsible for the care of our own Mother as our siblings do not live nearby. Sometimes your articles make me laugh, and sometimes they make me tear up a little. We are truly members of a special club.
We thank God daily for our six happy,healthy grandchildren who recharge our batteries when we are feeling overwhelmed.
Thank you so much and keep up the good work.